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Welcome to becomingfree.co!
Allow me to introduce myself. My name is Solomon. Just over two years ago I suffered from a debilitating disease that left me unable get out of bed, sleep well, make my own food or generally do anything much at all. I had panic attacks, brain fog, short term memory loss, muscle aches, extreme constant and debilitating exhaustion, and the list goes on.
I had to leave my university course and all my ambitions behind me to find healing at the age of 21.
Intent on never giving up, I was constantly searching for a way out of the incredibly debilitating disease that is CFS/ME, and I found it: Faster EFT (Emotionally Focussed Transformations) and CPT (Cognitive Phenomenological Therapy), and I'm now a practitioner in both these modalities.
Both these practices have not only allowed me to heal from CFS/ME, but have put me on a journey into complete emotional and physical well being that I never imagined possible beforehand.
The journey begins with you trusting your own ability to heal and transform. In trusting that you do actually have all the answers, you do actually know exactly where to go and how to heal.
Believe it or not, your subconscious knows exactly where you need to go to heal from whatever problem you have. This is proven time and time again in science when people 'accidentally' heal themselves by just taking a sugar pill (the placebo effect).
Practically every study on every drug that takes place needs to be compared to a control group of people who will take a sugar pill with no chemicals or drugs in it whatsoever. The amazing thing is that many of these people, despite the fact that it should have no effect on them at all, heal. Not just from psychological, 'in your head' diseases either; but actual physical diseases too. This even happens when people know they are just taking a sugar pill.
This is simply because the body and subconscious mind know exactly where your problem came from and how to fix it; and this is how I approach my clients.
Instead of treating people as victims of their history, instead of telling them that are ill and therefore only an expert can help them, I treat people as their own perfect experts.
You see, there are a lot of people out there who want to sell themselves as 'healers' or 'experts', people who say they have studied long and hard and now all the answers to all of your questions, but I'm not one of them.
Cognitive Phenomenological Therapy is all about following and facilitating your own phenomena and your own process. Instead of going over what happened to you and trying to work out why it happened to you, I'm more interested in what is NOT happening for you right now.
Who do you really want to be? What do you really want to be doing in your life? That is what I'm interested in.
If you suffer from depression, anxiety, over-eating, addictions, abusive relationships, autoimmune diseases or any number of other ailments; there is a good chance that you are suppressing a part of you.
In other words, a schism or split has been created in your personality. This simply means that there is a part of you is still affected by what happened to you in the past. This is who needs healing, who needs recovering and who is constantly trying to get your attention.
So instead of focussing on what happened to you, I want to focus on who it is that you disconnected from. Who it is that you lost because of what happened to you.
By recovering who was lost you will be able to be yourself again, to truly be authentic in every way and in every moment, to live in your greatest potential and revive your dreams once more. To recover what the past stole from you and to do what you really want to be doing in your life.
The choice is yours.
I do private one-to-one sessions in person, over skype or over the phone. I'm also available for talks and group sessions. I don't charge a set rate and instead ask people to pay me what it was worth to them. This is part of empowering people to take control of their own healing. If you don't gain anything, don't pay anything. However, if it changes your life forever, value this accordingly.